When I was 20, I had built my life on people pleasing. I wanted a first class degree. I wanted to wear the best clothes. I wanted to get a job that would make people think I’d done really well in life. Yet on one January night, in my little university room – behind blue suede curtains –my life changed forever…… Read More The Moment it Happened

My husband and I are fast approaching 4 years of marriage. And, as ever, I’ve been thinking about the process. I’ve been thinking about the journey – hubs and I getting to know one another, year after year. After mulling a few thoughts over, here are 5 things that I’ve learnt.… Read More All the Things I Don’t Know About Marriage

Waiting is not performing. Waiting is reminding yourself that Jesus is alive and He thinks about you ALL THE TIME. Waiting is heart work – it’s choosing to let God’s strength reside in you.… Read More Waiting

I thought that somehow, if I could get re-baptised, my actions would please God. I made the mistake of thinking that I could earn His love, by getting into a baptismal tank and washing myself clean.… Read More Remember Your Righteousness

I’ve decided to write out the 4 step process I went through, in order to initially step away from my habit of people-pleasing.… Read More 4 Recovery Steps That Will Break Your People Pleasing Habit